In the previous
article, we mentioned that parents can understand what the strengths of their
child are using Bazi. For people who do not have any background knowledge in
Bazi, they can read out the article named “Bazi Introduction” to have a better understanding
on Bazi. We will delve straight to the main structure of the chart for the
purpose of finding the strength or the strongest element of a person in this
article. Below is a sample chart. The season of birth for this person is circled
in red in the chart, which is spring, and wood will be the strongest element in
spring.
Bazi of a person born on 14 Feb 2013, 12pm
You can
also see that there are 2 more wood protruding on the heavenly stem as well. Therefore,
it is no doubt that the wood element is the strongest element in this chart.
And wood when referring to the 辛 xin metal Day master in the day stem is its wealth
element. Element that is controlled by the Day Master will be its wealth
element and it is metal controlling wood in this case. Therefore the structure
or the strongest element in this chart is direct wealth as the 甲 (yang wood) is an opposite element for the yin metal Day Master. Please
refer to the 10 gods table in Bazi introduction article if you are not familiar
with this.
As an alternative, you
can print out your Bazi chart from Joey Yap’s website where you can find out
what your profile is straight away. Click here to print chart.
Please bear in mind that
there are other things that influences how a person behave as well like the Day
master (Who he/she is), useful god (the most important element that brings
balance to the Bazi chart), etc. I will focus on the 10 profiles for the purpose of
finding out how your child operates in this article, so that you can focus on
the area where your child can perform best based on their strengths.
The 10 profiles
Direct Resource
Your child
is quiet, cultured, likes learning. They think a lot, meticulous and therefore
can be a good analyser.
Indirect Resource
A good
observer, they like unconventional knowledge and do things uniquely. They have
the ability to see things differently from others, and are usually quiet as
well.
Direct Officer
Your child
is a good follower who can follow rules and regulations. Set a clear target or
rule with your child and guide them with frequent monitoring and assessment.
Seven Killings
Your child
is brave and daring, like a warrior. They are straightforward and a doer. They
can be in business expansion line to help fight for market share for their
company. The only thing that needs to look into is they need to learn to be
patience and think thoroughly before they act as their weakness is acting too
fast and too direct.
Direct Wealth
Good at
management especially in saving money for the company as they are very
structured and aims to do things the most efficient way. This makes them the
best manager material for a corporate.
Indirect Wealth
Your child
is a natural-born entrepreneur. Train them in business related areas so that
they can become a successful businessman/woman in the future, not to forget
financial management training as they are quite poor with managing finances.
Eating God
Like an
artist, they have plenty of ideas and good imagination. They can express their
idea in words like a good writer, or in art like painting and fashion
designing. They enjoy beautiful things.
Hurting Officer
Your child
likes the lime light or attention, and is a natural performer. Let them attend
talent classes to find and learn what they really like and grow their natural talent.
They can be a good speaker, dancer, actor, musician, sportsmen etc.
Friend
Friend is
most important to them. They like to network and have many friends. Friend
influence has the most impact on those with highest percentage in Friend
profile. Make sure your child is surrounded by the type of friends that are positive
minded and can motivate your child. You can enhance this by letting your child
join clubs or society groups that are full with ambitious young people.
Rob Wealth
If your
child is having Rob wealth as the highest percentage in the 10 profiles, they
are very competitive in nature, and like challenges and competitions. They like
to be in groups, and is not a lone ranger. Put your child in a competitive
environment where they have peers who fight along with them. They perform best
under pressure.
The above
are just some suggestions for the parents to understand their child more. This
can be used as an additional piece of information for the parents to consider
before deciding on anything for their child. As you can see from above, there
are people who are extrovert, like to be seen, talk to and surrounded by people.
There are also people who are introvert, who thinks a lot, are quiet and like
to be alone. Please do not think that it is a disadvantage if your child is shy
and quiet; they could be the best strategist or analyst in the future with appropriate guidance. You
just need to focus on the key areas where their strength lies and grow the
talent that is suitable for them. There is a Chinese saying that goes that there
will be an expert in each and every different industries and fields.
The dream
of unleashing your child’s full potential has never been easier if you can
identify your child’s true potential and give them appropriate training and
guidance to nurture their talent.
If you
would like to know more on this, there are books by Joey Yap that talks about
the 10 Day masters, 5 structures and 10 profiles that explain this in more
details. Click here to visit Joey Yap’s Mastery Academy.
